5 Ways to Foster a Resilient Mindset
Mindset Missy Blackmer Mindset Missy Blackmer

5 Ways to Foster a Resilient Mindset

Having a fixed mindset can be limiting to our goals, hopes, dreams, and overall self-esteem. Fixed mindsets don’t just happen overnight though, they are often developed over time based on our experiences, relationships, and beliefs. A growth mindset on the other hand, fosters resilience – aka the ability to adapt and bounce back after challenges.

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Unlocking Your Inner Self: Taking Care of Your Spirit
Faith, Mental Health, Personal Development, Mindset Missy Blackmer Faith, Mental Health, Personal Development, Mindset Missy Blackmer

Unlocking Your Inner Self: Taking Care of Your Spirit

Like other forms of self-care, caring for your inner spirit doesn't have to be complicated or expensive, but it is important! With all the time we spend plugged in, tuned in or online, it's easy to get disconnected from our inner selves. Since this is the key concept of spirituality, try to find time daily to self-reflect. Figuring out what's really important to you can lessen the frustration and stress that often come with life’s everyday tasks and requirements.

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The Belief Blueprint: Uncovering the Architecture of Decision-Making

The Belief Blueprint: Uncovering the Architecture of Decision-Making

Our decision-making processes are complex and multifaceted, driven by a combination of beliefs, cognitive processes, emotions, social influences, and intuition. By unraveling the architecture of decision-making, we can develop a greater self-awareness, make more conscious choices, and ultimately lead more fulfilling lives.

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Summer Survival: Say No to Guilt and Yes to Self-Compassion
Emily E Whitacre Emily E Whitacre

Summer Survival: Say No to Guilt and Yes to Self-Compassion

Summer doesn’t have to be a ball of stress that makes you sweat more than the sun’s heat. Offer yourself compassion, set up a routine, ditch the toxic thinking, and find your summer squad for support. Remind yourself that you DO have what it takes to not only make it through the summer, but to enjoy it!

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Embrace Your Authenticity: Rise Above Comparison and Cultivate Inner Strength

Embrace Your Authenticity: Rise Above Comparison and Cultivate Inner Strength

Authenticity is a journey of self-discovery and self-expression, allowing us to live in alignment with our true selves and find fulfillment in our lives. Ultimately, authenticity is about honoring who we are at our core, embracing our uniqueness, and living a life that is true to ourselves rather than trying to fit into a mold defined by others. Discover the path to shame resilience.

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Trauma and Your Personality
Mental Health, Personal Development, Mindset Missy Blackmer Mental Health, Personal Development, Mindset Missy Blackmer

Trauma and Your Personality

Traumatic experiences can have a long-lasting effect on individuals. Physical and mental changes happen, sometimes that we see, sometimes that we don’t see for years. Our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are shaped in ways that extend far beyond the initial event, and it can have a profound impact on our personality. Though such extensive change can happen, remarkable healing and growth can happen.

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Nurturing Calm: Understanding & Managing Anxiety's Impact on the Body
Mental Health Missy Blackmer Mental Health Missy Blackmer

Nurturing Calm: Understanding & Managing Anxiety's Impact on the Body

The impact of anxiety on the body is far-reaching.Anxious thoughts can flood our minds, making it difficult to focus, concentrate, or engage in present-moment experiences. The constant stream of worries can prevent us from experiencing a sense of peace and tranquility. Embrace these techniques with patience, perseverance, and self-compassion as you embark on a journey of self-discovery and well-being, creating an anchored life filled with tranquility and inner peace.

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The Intersection of Mental Health, Boundaries, and Faith
Missy Blackmer Missy Blackmer

The Intersection of Mental Health, Boundaries, and Faith

The intersection between mental health, faith, and boundaries is complex. On the one hand, religious beliefs and practices can be a source of comfort and support for individuals experiencing mental health challenges. For example, prayer, meditation, and other spiritual practices may help individuals feel more connected to something larger than themselves and provide a sense of meaning and purpose, which can alleviate some symptoms of depression and anxiety. On the other hand, many faith-based boundaries and customs can create a sense of shame and guilt that makes being involved and feeling purposeful difficult to some.

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Unworthy & Ashamed: Rising Above the Stigma of Mental Health Issues in the Church
Mental Health, Faith, Shame Missy Blackmer Mental Health, Faith, Shame Missy Blackmer

Unworthy & Ashamed: Rising Above the Stigma of Mental Health Issues in the Church

Church hurt happens when a person shares their story and they are met with judgment, instead of grace. Often in these cases, Scripture is used as a weapon of shame. Don’t let your mental health issues define you. Your identity is not found in the diagnosis. Your true identity is found in Christ. You are valuable. You are seen. You are loved.

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